She is pregnant. What do you do now?

Note for Coder: Keep /sitting-with-her as its own door for anyone sitting with her. This `/for-men` page is a distinct door aimed at male partners / fathers — do not merge or delete either.

Start by listening You may have strong feelings about the pregnancy, but she is likely carrying fears of her own. Before trying to solve everything, listen to what she is worried about and what she needs from you.

We do not provide or refer for abortion. If either of you wants a nurse, chat and the form are here. Free and private. Let her type for herself when the conversation is about her body.

What you can do right now - Stay calm enough to have a real conversation. - Do not disappear because you are scared. - Avoid threats, ultimatums, or pressure. - Offer to go with her for pregnancy testing, ultrasound, or other appointments if she wants you there — those happen at a center or medical office. - Learn what abortion, parenting, and adoption actually involve. - Be honest about your concerns without making the decision for her. - Look for practical solutions together.

If abortion is being considered You can help gather information, but do not pressure her into or out of an abortion. Ask what she wants, help her get accurate information, and support her in talking with qualified medical professionals.

Georgia law makes it unlawful to perform an abortion except when needed to prevent a serious health risk to the pregnant woman. Packs can still arrive in the mail. They are two drugs, not one. A mailbox cannot tell you if the pregnancy is in the uterus. This is not legal advice.

You may need support too Some pregnancy centers in Georgia offer services specifically for fathers and partners, including mentoring, parenting education, and practical support. A nurse can help you look for resources near you. Also see /sitting-with-her if you are with her in the moment and need a shorter guide.

Laws about abortion differ by state. This page is public information for people in Georgia — not legal advice. Ask a nurse about your situation.